Survivor|v1ctim safe space|vent

💖 We will let you talk, give you advice if you want and accept you the way you are because you deserve relief, not pain. Here you can be yourself and talk about what others did to you

🩷 Not like toxic gatekeeping mental health servers

🩷 Everyone who abides by the rules is welcome. Every kind of pain or absence of pain is valid. Originally made for AMAB, WLW and victims of child abuse, bullying or systemic abuse but if any of these categories does not match you you're also welcome

🩷 Not like the toxic gatekeeping queer servers

🩷 Not transmedicalist

Small member count but you can help fix that today 😘

I am a survivor of severe abuse and bullying that consumed the first 19 years and 10 months of my life. The perpetrators were never punished, because systems that call themselves ‘justice’ exist to protect cruelty. I was the one who faced the consequences of their actions. My health and time were stolen from me.

All my life I’ve carried softness and a sense of justice, but the world kept trying to crush that. They were dark, and they saw the light in me — and couldn’t stand it.

Now I have two paths: A. Work hard and destroy myself to hurt them back with violence, or B. Use my remaining time to do the things I love and help other victims.

I choose B. I deserve relief and gentleness, not more pain. I cry when I think about how cruel the world is, and I mourn those who didn’t survive. I want to build something that helps other victims — because they, too, deserve relief.

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If you’re here and you’ve been hurt, you’re not alone. You still deserve gentleness.